Thursday, April 15, 2010

We’re Official

April 15, 2010 will be remembered as finalization day. We’ve been a family since January 9, 2010, but finalization day means we’re recognized as a family by law. The judge declared: “Raelyn Grace Repko shall, for all intents and purposes, be considered their natural child and shall be entitled to the same rights and privileges.”

We saw other families go into court before us and met another family going into court behind us. We were all there for the same reason. It was “Adoption Day.” It’s most likely the happiest day in court each month.

 007Mark and I were sworn in and promised to “tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth.” We each had to sit in the witness stand box and answer a few questions. The judge asked Mark if he thought we were financially secure enough to raise a child. Mark answered yes and then the judge chuckled and said, “Are you sure? Girls are expensive. I should know, I have daughters!” haha After the judge granted the adoption and signed all the documents, we took this photo. He is a kind man and congratulated us multiple times.

We declared the day, “Family Day.” We packed up a picnic lunch and headed to the IMA grounds. We had a beautiful day and just enjoyed being together.

Raelyn is such a special little girl. She will always know that she grew in my heart and from my prayers. Oh so many prayers…

16 comments:

Dylan C. said...

Sounds like the best day ever. :)

Indianalori said...

Love, love, love this post. Congratulations!

The Gilles Family said...

Simply beautiful, and absolutely perfect. Congratulations, and happy "Family Day!"

Meg said...

Congrats Steph! I am so happy that you are official! You deserve all the happiness in the world.

PEEPER said...

Yipppeeeee!! I know it was pretty much a done deal already, but I'm sure it's a big sigh of relief to have it be official! It such a blessing to see prayers answered!

Heather said...

What a special day! I loved all the pictures. Brings tears to my eyes. What a wonderful gift God gave you.

erin said...

Happy Family Day, indeed!
Congratulations Repko Family - This sounds like a day to celebrate and rejoice over each year!

Anonymous said...

What a beautiful family--you three look so happy! What a rewarding service that judge does for families...we can't wait to see Raelyn this coming weekend.

Matt, Ashli, and Rachelle

Stephanie said...

Very amazing! I am so happy for all of you. Brought a tear to my eye as I was reading. So wonderful! Congrats!

Anonymous said...

LOVE!!!! Beautiful pictures. Beautiful family. Congratulations!

(And I must say - your hair looks great!)

xoxo!
Kim

Jen said...

What an amazing experience for your family! Brandon and I are so happy for you!!

Nicole said...

Congratulations on becoming "an official" family - not that it took any paperwork to finish what was already done in your hearts! Raelyn is beautiful - and getting so big!
Precious! Thanks for sharing with us.

Anonymous said...

Stephanie and Mark,
Raelyn Grace is a beautiful little girl and I am her proud grandpa. I am looking forward to spending a lot of time with her over the years.
The photos are perfect and now "grace" our desktop.
Love, Dad R

Anonymous said...

Mark and Stephanie, Great News! What a beautiful little lady, Raelyn. We are proud to be Great Uncle and Great Aunt. Well, we may not be that great, ha. But, that is what we are officially.

Love and prayers, Warren and Jean

Anonymous said...

Those pictures say it all. They are soooo sweet! Family reunion soon I hope. :)

Aunt Sharon

Anonymous said...

We are thrilled that it is now official that Raelyn Grace is a part of our extended family. What a beautiful addition!!

Aunt Esther and Uncle George